Some of you know – most of you don’t (I don’t always share THAT much – well ok – I like to talk…. but still) We are going through the Foster to Adopt program in Loudoun County. We are looking to adopt another child or 2 (or 3) that has been in the foster system and for whatever reason their birth parents have given up their parental rights. We started classes yesterday. There are 27 HOURS of these classes to teach us what to expect.
Besides being the “oh what a great thing..” to “you all are nuts….” it’s still an interesting process and amazing that there are this many children waiting EVEN IN RICH LOUDOUN COUNTY!! It’s truly eye opening once you realize how many kids are in “the system”.
As a mom though – I want to save all the children. It’s the reason (as bad as this may sound) I’m no longer allowed by Joe to go to the pound – why? Because I will adopt an animal. It’s a given 99% of the time (hello? Look at the farm……. we were just going to have 25 chickens and 6 llamas!! I promised!!) This program pulls at every string in my body to help them and in addition – because of all the paperwork, wouldn’t it just be easier to have my own baby?
No, I wasn’t meant to have more children. I had 2 rough pregancies and I won’t put myself back through that (even though I am 20+ pound LIGHTER than when I got pregs with Jacob). Plus, I was adopted as an infant – and was given a dang good life. I want to be able to give that to someone else – that’s just plain and simple.
If you ever wanted to just LOOK to see how many children are available IN THE UNITED STATES – just visit http://www.adoptuskids.org You can even refine it to Virginia if you want and be prepared to have your heart strings pulled – even Joe’s were yesterday when he actually LOOKED at the site.
Now I will pass on (because I never would have learned about it if someone didn’t tell ME) the information for Loudoun County. Bet you didn’t know they need more foster homes and adoptive homes? Did you know the classes are FREE to go through and you aren’t REQUIRED to do anything if you pass them? Also did you know they will search OUT OF STATE if they don’t find someone in Virginia for you? http://loudoun.vhost.vipnet.org/services/foster.htm At the bottom Francie’s email address is wrong - just add an ‘e’ to the end of it BEFORE the @ sign. My soap-box remark…. maybe look into adopting the kids in the US before looking overseas – there are plenty available and in need – of ALL ages.